Wednesday, July 9, 2008

What is it that makes a bigger difference……………?


What is it that makes a bigger difference……………?


It’s the smaller things that we do, that makes a bigger difference, many a times………………………….


This is a simple truth, we fail to understand most of the time ……


For example , parents, spend on their kids for education, health etc…….They do a lot for the happiness of their children……But when it comes to giving them a hug, giving them a little some time and listen to them……..they fail to do so…….Can a maid listen to the pleas of your child, ? Parents can pay high salary and keep a maid to look after kids, but can never replace the love a kid needs from parents……..So in fact it’s the little something we could do that makes a bigger difference………Iistening to your children, spending some time with them etc………


A husband can pour his wealth on his wife, but can never make his wife happy, if he cannot give sincere love……..Sincere love includes listening, sharing, caring………spending time etc……..Likewise, a wife can do all cooking, ironing, and cleaning etc.. for the husband….But it’s the little time she spends, listening, little time she spends trying to understand her husband, with out judging him, which makes a bigger difference……….


A child can spend wealth on his/her parents when they are old…..But its not what you spend that would make a difference to them………It’s what’s in your heart that can be felt by them….It’s how sincere you are that matters……..a little time spent with them listening to them, it’s what matters…….. A little time spent listening could make a difference more than a little time spent talking……..


Hence a little quality time spent with your loved ones could be, more valuable than anything that can be purchased with money…………….


This applies to all relationships in general……


A sincere smile could make a difference……….A sincere greeting could make a difference……..


Salaam……….Have a nice day! Insha Allah………

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wooww..evry thing v do special makes a difference..lovely pic:)..

Anonymous said...

Bismillah...Jazakallah Khairan. Time is the measure of life, time is an amaanah...So spend as much time as possible with your loved ones. Nice post :-))