How different is your opinion

We all have difference of opinions over a matter. When we refuse to see the other side of the coin we always misinterpret other peoples thoughts and expressions in an obsessed manner. Difference of opinion is healthy! But do.not let it become so different to the point where you see nothing but your opinion! 

looking down or up or ahead

I have actually seen people laugh at me
Mock at me
But then I always forgave them
I told well, it is not their fault.
It did hurt neverthless

But I respect them
care for them
However much I can
And hold no grudges
After all we all are human

We all gossip
We all backbite
We all lie
At one time or another

But I tell myself
I will never mock and laugh at another
I will never look down on another
Cox I know how it feels actually

But then at the end of the day
Life goes on
Another new day comes
And those actions are mere human
Why take it so seriously?

Simple words

Freedom....what exactly is freedom and how free are we to do what we want out of our life?

Under normal circumstances, no matter where we are in life, we all have the freedom to do what we want out of our life, we have the freedom to choose which road we want to take, which dress to wear, what to say etc....regardless of lifes' generals principles and values, this freedom do exist..

Lets take for an example the case of a students.They are free to do what they want with their school days, like skipping classes, cheating, bullying others etc, or they are free to choose to take their studies seriously and work best to their capacity and determination.They choose their actions depending on their level of determination, and what they want out of life and what they want to give in return etc....and how much lifes principles and values matter to them...In the end they will have to face consequences any way, with a first class pass, or an average pass or a fail, but ofcourse failures are never reason to loose hope as long as ur intention and determination were right, so things depend on our intentions and our determiantion and dedication, if our intention is right, then we are on the right path,,,what i mean is after on e failure students often get many chances to try and try again,

Like wise its our determination, intentions that often take us to different levels in our chosen careers....

Like wise its the parents sincerity, determination and dedication which often brings out the best in their children.....

The fact is we always have to face the consequences of our own actions...in one way or the other,,

Different people choose different path in life , and there are people of different faiths..

Among Muslims too religon is practiced by different people to different levels, perhaps it depends on their dedication and how much they value their faith, in the end for certain we all have to pay the price of our actions good or bad,,,

quite often among Muslims too there are pepole who might not want t o practice Islamic aspects such as wearing hijaab, wearing niqaab , wearing beard etc...but being Muslims do they have the right to make fun of such aspects? Could they be more knowledgable than relgisou scholars who ask Muslims to practice it? this who make fun of such facts are making fun of their own belief, arent they?

Certainly no Muslim can deny that a Muslim have to pray 5 times a day, its obligatory, yet how many of us fail to dedicate less than an hour divided in to five times a day for our creator who blessed us with numerous blessings? How often do we giev importance to our jobs, our studies rather than our religous duties?

Life is full of ups and downs, if we are not grateful to Allah SWA during good times, to whom can we turn during lifes bad times which will come for certain sooner or later?

As Muslims we should know there are people who practice Islam to different levels, and all of us should learn to respect one another, those blessed with more knowledge and rigtheousness too should not look down on others, and those less practicing Muslims too should stop looking for a chance to make fun of there own faith rather should try to be more righteous, learn more about Islam and be thankful to Allah SWA..

Self confidence

Self confidence is one of the most valuable attire any human being can possess. When it comes along with faith,principles and values the path of life appears smooth and wonderful till it reaches end. The obstacles along just acts as a strength for such people. The challenge of coming the obstacle just motivates them, to get over with it.with out self confidence path of life becomes a bed of thorns, which one can't get rid of along the path of life. Thorns just keep pressing, and beauty of life becomes invisible.

Self confidence is one of the most valuable gift a parent can give to a child. It's invaluable. Children start to learn this from a very young age; from what they see around, from how people react towards them etc. Hence it's acquired from young age and parents love and guidance continue to strengthen it during teenage years and so on. Nothing  could make a parent more happier than seeing ones children act with discipline and excel in life. Today this remains as a big challenge for parents. Self confident and disciplined children. Self confidence with out discipline and knowledge of principles and values is as dangerous as one without self confidence. It's a challenge for parents and when they see their children become responsible people , their self confidence as a parent increases knowing its time to slow down a little bit.


Everything that happens and that comes our way certainly happens for a reason. Every day is a new day with new hopes. Numerous blessings are around. Anything could change in a mere second. Hope for the best at all times and keep on walking ahead with yesterday's lesson in hand and today's task in hand.

aging

when you are 30 or 40 years old is the perfect time to look back upon your life, and ask yourself, what you have made of your life, what you have given, what you have taken...etc..

Its not the time to make mistakes, Its the timeto look back and learn...Its the time to teach, from what life has taught you, and start acting or being wise....

If when you are 40 or 50 you arent more loving, more giving, more caring, more in to thinking about the purpose of life, more in the remembrance of Allah, you should weep..and consider you life being wasted..But as each day is a new chance, there is still time to act on lifes knowledge...

Make up your mind today, to act wise even if you arent, It s likely to come with the acting...

May Allah gives us all a chance to repent, and be better human beings, better Muslims..